Marry a guy who is as smart as you and will challenge you. And can make you laugh. That is the most important.

Date someone who is interested in you. I don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny. I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. Someone who wants to read every word you write. Someone who wants hear every note of your favourite song, and watch every scene of your favourite movie. Someone wants to find every scar upon your body, and learn where each one came from. Someone who wants to know your favourite brand of toothpaste, and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them. There is a difference between attraction and interest. Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are, and hold onto them.


If you ever feel like you can’t 100% be yourself with someone, you shouldn’t be with them. You shouldn’t have to question everything you say before you say it. You shouldn’t be in fear that every stupid little thing you say is going to cause a fight, and you shouldn’t have to hold back your feelings. Pretending to be someone else gets exhausting.


*doesn’t check bank account*
*pretends everything is fine*


stay away from people who make you feel like you are hard to love